如果他能挺着胸脯对别人承认：那时在农村我爱肖华，现在我又爱
上了别人。我还会认为张艺谋是个堂堂的七尺男儿。然而，我失望了。他的身影在
我眼里开始佝偻萎缩。
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Well said. I respect Zhang Yimou's
choice, but for this point, he
should have done better.
I like this book a lot.
I have read this book several years
ago and today when I read it again,
I still feel touched.
Her description of life and love
is so beautiful and delicate.
In my heart, she is a much more
respectful woman than those stars
( including Gong).
I believe she will find the
happiness in her life after going
through all of this, for a woman
with such delicate feelings about
life, a wife with such sacrificial
spirit to her husband, and a mother
with such responsibility to her
kid.
肖华成为悲剧性人物不是肖华的责
任，但肖华始终是悲剧性人物就不是张艺
谋的责任了。
肖华的书写得很好，她有一种平淡中
见力量的感觉，她应该可以成为一个很好
的作家。
走出张艺谋的阴影是困难的，但正因
为困难，肖华才值得走。而肖华需要得到
的是人民对你的尊重，并不是人们对你普
遍的同情。
肖华会有一个好的晚年，但愿肖华在
感情上不再原谅张艺谋，旧路不可返。人
心不可亵渎。一将成名百骨灰虽是自古名
言。但肖华只要活着，女儿就是她最大的
安慰和财富。只要肖华永远不再原谅张艺
谋，而且和女儿好好的活着，就是张艺谋
此生要背上的最沉重的包裹。
最怕肖华不能超越自己，早早晚晚都
原谅了他，那么我们这些读者，为她难过
就都是傻子了。肖华要做自强的好人。懂
吗？
I read this book 9 years ago. Today I read it again and found that she
was right- "time will prove everything". I sincerely wish her, such a
nice woman, to be happy!
Great title and great contents.
Wish her happy now