很庆幸在这时读到了这篇小说，很巧，几
周前认识了一个巴西男人，很绅士的开始
表达他对我的感情，很浪漫，使我几乎要
坠入其中，巴西对我是那么陌生，文化背
景不同，生活习惯不同，甚至幽默方式都
不同，我想爱情、婚姻如果离开了最基本
的协调，那应不会是最真实的幸福。几经
考虑，我让自己消失在他的生活中。现在
想来，我应是做了一个非常正确的决定，
我没有被一时快乐，卷入另一段我所不希
望的人生。我想真正的幸福应是一种相对
的平稳和协调，还有中国人更能了解中国
人吗？就算也有悲欢离合，在我心里，民
族的还是最优秀的。
这个女人很勇敢。和各国男人上床，不怕得
艾滋病吗？
很真实，很感人，书中透漏出人生所必须
面对的酸甜苦辣，爱情，友情，事业，奋
斗，幸福，甜美，挫折，失败，痛苦，茫
然，无助。我经历过，我得到过，我拥有
过，我失去过，人生真的很琢磨不透，当
你得到幸福快乐的时候，就是你难过失去
痛苦的开始。总之，冥冥注定的一生是你
无悔的选择。
我想知道作者是持哪国护照的?能在各国
自由出入
Aryan, you are very bullshit, yes,
our chinese is racist, but why we
can´t have racist to those white
pigs?? if they are racist to us,
then why we can´t against them
with racism this manner? do you
happy that our women eat by those
white pigs? you said there are many
chinese women marry with those
white pigs? so have many white
women marry with our chinese
buddies??, please clear your, too
naive, if you have any words to
say, send me a email to
zhi_xi@hotmail.com, let me see what
any shit you can say.
Damn you all Chinese racists!
I think the author does nothing
wrong, the only thing made you
grouchy is that she "had sex" with
foreigner, or exactly speaking,
Caucasian whites. Why you have bias
on the Caucasian?
In your perspective, any sexual
action between Chinese women and
Chinese men or oversea Chinese men,
can be regarded as "decent", a
Chinese female who have sex or get
marry with Caucasian can be
recognized as a "slut" or "whore".
In thorn's post, we can find he
reiterate the notion of "race"
(such as "make her skin color is
not yellow") time and time again.
That shows how rigid in mind he is!
Actually, Chinese women has their
right to choose their mate, Mr
thorn said:"Chinese female, where
is your self-respect, where your
nationality," drolly nonsence! If a
Chinese female marry or have sex
with foreigners that shows they are
indecent? That shows they don't
adore and not loyal to their
motherland?!!
Your notion is not patroitic, but
chauvinism, even racism! How can we
Chinese people be so clannish?!!
Chinese female love Caucasoid guys,
coz, in the Chinese aesthetic view,
people are inclined to the
Caucasian male, for their feature
thick hair, high nose bridge and
fair skin are beloved by Chinese
people, no one will gainsay. In the
North America, 80% of the
interracial marriage between
Chinese and Caucasian are made by
Chinese female marry Caucasoid
male. In your standpoint, they are
all sluts?!
If a Caucasian have prejudice on
other group of people, that can be
called racism. But remember, we
should also treat those people with
different feature and complexion
equally!
Damn you all Chinese racists!
I think the author does nothing
wrong, the only thing made you
grouchy is that she "had sex" with
foreigner, or exactly speaking,
Caucasian whites. Why you have bias
on the Caucasian?
In your perspective, any sexual
action between Chinese women and
Chinese men or oversea Chinese men,
can be regarded as "decent", a
Chinese female who have sex or get
marry with Caucasian can be
recognized as a "slut" or "whore".
In thorn's post, we can find he
reiterate the notion of "race"
(such as "make her skin color is
not yellow") time and time again.
That shows how rigid in mind he is!
Actually, Chinese women has their
right to choose their mate, Mr
thorn said:"Chinese female, where
is your self-respect, where your
nationality," drolly nonsence! If a
Chinese female marry or have sex
with foreigners that shows they are
indecent? That shows they don't
adore and not loyal to their
motherland?!!
Your notion is not patroitic, but
chauvinism, even racism! How can we
Chinese people be so clannish?!!
Chinese female love Caucasoid guys,
coz, in the Chinese aesthetic view,
people are inclined to the
Caucasian male, for their feature
thick hair, high nose bridge and
fair skin are beloved by Chinese
people, no one will gainsay. In the
North America, 80% of the
interracial marriage between
Chinese and Caucasian are made by
Chinese female marry Caucasoid
male. In your standpoint, they are
all sluts?!
If a Caucasian have prejudice on
other group of people, that can be
called racism. But remember, we
should also treat those people with
different feature and complexion
equally!
Damn you all Chinese racists!
I think the author does nothing
wrong, the only thing made you
grouchy is that she "had sex" with
foreigner, or exactly speaking,
Caucasian whites. Why you have bias
on the Caucasian?
In your perspective, any sexual
action between Chinese women and
Chinese men or oversea Chinese men,
can be regarded as "decent", a
Chinese female who have sex or get
marry with Caucasian can be
recognized as a "slut" or "whore".
In thorn's post, we can find he
reiterate the notion of "race"
(such as "make her skin color is
not yellow") time and time again.
That shows how rigid in mind he is!
Actually, Chinese women has their
right to choose their mate, Mr
thorn said:"Chinese female, where
is your self-respect, where your
nationality," drolly nonsence! If a
Chinese female marry or have sex
with foreigners that shows they are
indecent? That shows they don't
adore and not loyal to their
motherland?!!
Your notion is not patroitic, but
chauvinism, even racism! How can we
Chinese people be so clannish?!!
Chinese female love Caucasoid guys,
coz, in the Chinese aesthetic view,
people are inclined to the
Caucasian male, for their feature
thick hair, high nose bridge and
fair skin are beloved by Chinese
people, no one will gainsay. In the
North America, 80% of the
interracial marriage between
Chinese and Caucasian are made by
Chinese female marry Caucasoid
male. In your standpoint, they are
all sluts?!
If a Caucasian have prejudice on
other group of people, that can be
called racism. But remember, we
should also treat those people with
different feature and complexion
equally!
BItch, do not scrape off our
chinese women's international
reputation!
It must be a stupid siiccckk movel,
the author is such a bitch,
Hey, don't scrape off our chinsese
women's international reputation!
Damn!!!
Damn it
此文激起我的共鸣, 好文章.
很感人的故事！女主人公的人生经历，感情
经历都相当丰富多彩。佩服她的敢于面对自
己真实的感情！
With all due respect, Thorn, having
sex with non-Chineses doesn't make
a Chinese female less decent at
all. That's her choice. By the way,
sex has nothing to do with race.
If you think this is a novel, then
of course it is different from
reality; if it is a real diary,
then it's the author's life, it's
possibility no matter how odd it
sounds.
很流畅，可故事结尾太有传统的戏剧性：幸
福的憧憬被划上悲剧的句号。
文笔有一些三毛的味道，充满了浪漫主义和
闯荡天涯的朝气，虽然细想一下，会有某种
过份渲染的不真实感。没机会或没勇气出远
门的人一定又要睡不着觉了。但现实是，海
外生活不光只有浪漫的梦想，还有残酷的现
实，生活是建立在每一秒的真实上的。
This novel shouldn't have been written
because the story is not that
interesting. The woman might have
some infatuation with foreign man, but
she doesn't deserve to be called a
'whore'-- I don't think she's
inherently bad. The problem is this:
she is psychologically fucked up-- she
doesn't know what she really wants in
life (who the hell will fly to Brazil just
to meet some man she doesn't know
very well?); besides she has too much
vanity. She became more mature
toward the end, when she met William,
a Chinese Australian. I think in the
next installment she should meet a
real Chinese man :) I really wish the
story didn't actually happen, it's kind
of pathetic. At the same time, I
admire the courage of the author in
portraying her sexual desire. I only
hope I can meet some girl who's so
open about sex. Hey hey...
I want to stay home.
The book is a sick, move, dirty,
seeking, and self-bragging one. The
author had been living in a real
life when she was with foreigners
which is a bragging, and the end
about the only real Chinese,
Wiliam, is a fake that is very much
like for ending the book only. Why?
It makes me feel sick, just as most
of Chinese female it seems to the
author that having sex with
foreigner will bring her honour and
make her skin color is not yellow
any more and make her to write down
her sexual experince with the
divine chinese character she should
not for any reason touch it. I
think I should rename the title of
this dirty book, it should be name
after "Fuck me, pennis abroad!".I
do not understand why there exists
the editor who wants to publish
this book. To foreigner, Chinese
girls mean what? Dirty cheap
chicken. Chinese female, where is
your self-respect, where your
nationality, where is your
intention of being a decent human-
being?
作者是有经历过海外流浪的生活,叙述还算
流畅, 但逻辑性和真实性经常的倒置和错乱
使之有些浮华而不真实,太多刻意美化自己
让文章有些肤浅...生活在外很多年,也算给
读者一些公道话吧.
IT'S MADE ME SICK.
从小就有一个梦想，渴望走到世界的各个地
方，不是旅游观光，而是实实在在的去生
活、去感受、去体验那不同地域的一切一
切。曾经非常艳羡三毛，可我现在觉得茜茜
她活得更真实、更感人，也许里面有些东西
是为了只是为了创作而创作。可无论如何，
她真真正正感动了我，在我一口气读完的同
时，仿佛自己已经实现了自己小时的梦想。
但当我准备洗漱上床时，终于回到了现实。
唉，要何年何月才可能实现我自己的梦想
呵…………
无论真与假,都是你的或他/她的感受,我们
的故事.
我爱看.
每个人的生活经历都是一本书，每个人
都在为了自己的梦想拼命挣扎。只愿好
梦终能成真。
I want to move to Brazil.
感人的故事、但不知是不是真実的故事、
因為与現実不太相附。
但謝謝帯給一天的感動、以致懐疑其真実
性。
非常成功的故事。不希望在現実生活中有
那様悲傷的故事、特別発生在本人深愛的
女主人公身上。
I only love CHINA!!!
A moving love story, but i wonder
why they have been so tragic at the
end of each episode?