成材要靠后天教育
When he was 2, I read many famous
article including some antient
chinese article , such as
liuguolun, he was always so patient
and he can understand the article
and was very interested in them and
try to remeber them. He really
enjoy reading after he was 2. when
he was 6, he can read most of book,
especially some book about history.
His math is very good. When I send
him to a class for learn to play
SuanPan with double-hands at 5,
many kids feel frustrating and
depressed,but he was always the
best one and fastest one in that
class and call it cool game .He is
very social, too.
My son didn't dare to move when
other kids stand beside him . What
he liked to say when even other
kids shout loudly is: go home, go
home!!!He dislike book. When I
TRIED to tell story to him , he got
so bored and tried to tear the book
up.
I cried!! I must change it. I
took my son to kids. when other
He is changed. I feel so
happy.My time is deserved.even now,
he just came to USA, he still show
strong interests in reading. I
worried about his English. But when
he got back home from school and I
ask him if his weekly book to read
at school got him trouble, he told
me with laugh: It is so funny ,
that book tell..........I am so
happy, he finds fun in reading!!
Learning is not a burden to him
but is a fun and is something can
make him know more and feel more.
He really enjoy it.
My experience about education of
my son is:
Observe and feel him when he
stay alone , play with friends or
talk with me. Find his feature and
model it.
Pay patience to him and never
say: you are so stupid.
Give time to let him make
decision and let him find the
result after he make the decision.
He will learn to think and to make
good decision before act, but never
regret even if did something wrong.
Read with him, show those things
we don't know. Book can tell more
than our knowledge and
espeirence.XIANGSHENG and music
from a radiostation make mefeel so
relax and happy when Iam pregnant.
nd I also take him to the shop
where I asked him to touch the
goods which can touch and told him
not touch those we should not
touch. That is not because the
worker will beat us, but we should
respect and appreciate their work.I
talked with the teacher in
kidgarden about his shortcome and
work together to improve it. I tell
him story and read book to him to
show how beautiful is the story and
how funny in the story . Many
times, my tears were out because
his act. But I always smile to him
and show the beauty of the world
and books , the friendly world. I
used all my time after I finish my
work. What is lucky is I have
enough time because I taught in
college.After 6 months, CCTV come
to our city to choose 2 children
show their talent in the TV show.
My son came to be the best one. He
is so social and so aggressive. He
got famous in the group of
Da_FEng_che.
kids shout loudly and he feel they
are blaming him, I told him , big
kids always do that, and he will do
it when he grow up.It is not a
sound for fight. and I ask him to
touch those kids who he feel
afraid.He find other kids are not
so bad!! a
.
all of these come from my
patience and education. actually,
he was so shy ( not only shy, so
coward and heart-closed )when he
was 2. I send him to his grandma
after he was 6 months. His grandma
is a farmer. She is afraid that my
son will be hurt by the cold
weather or hot weather and other
kids, she never make him leave the
room when it is summer and winter
or fall.she always told him that if
he play with others, they will beat
him up.she always impress my son
that he and his grandparents are
are "stranger, others". when I took
my son back when he was 2, my son
touched the refrigerator in my
room , but his grandma was afraid
he got hurt by electricity, she
told him : that belongs to others,
don't touch, or they will beat
you!! I got shocked and cried.